Numbers 30:15 - Silent approval binds vows.

Numbers 30:15 - במדבר 30:15

Hebrew Text

וְאִם־הַחֲרֵשׁ יַחֲרִישׁ לָהּ אִישָׁהּ מִיּוֹם אֶל־יוֹם וְהֵקִים אֶת־כָּל־נְדָרֶיהָ אוֹ אֶת־כָּל־אֱסָרֶיהָ אֲשֶׁר עָלֶיהָ הֵקִים אֹתָם כִּי־הֶחֱרִשׁ לָהּ בְּיוֹם שָׁמְעוֹ׃

English Translation

But if her husband hold his peace at her from day to day; then he confirms all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he confirms them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he heard them.

Transliteration

Ve'im-hacharesh yacharish lah ishah miyom el-yom vehekim et-kol-nedareha o et-kol-esareha asher aleha hekim otam ki-hecherish lah beyom shamo'o.

Hebrew Leining Text

וְאִם־הַחֲרֵשׁ֩ יַחֲרִ֨ישׁ לָ֥הּ אִישָׁהּ֮ מִיּ֣וֹם אֶל־יוֹם֒ וְהֵקִים֙ אֶת־כׇּל־נְדָרֶ֔יהָ א֥וֹ אֶת־כׇּל־אֱסָרֶ֖יהָ אֲשֶׁ֣ר עָלֶ֑יהָ הֵקִ֣ים אֹתָ֔ם כִּי־הֶחֱרִ֥שׁ לָ֖הּ בְּי֥וֹם שׇׁמְעֽוֹ׃

Parasha Commentary

Context in Torah

This verse (Bamidbar 30:15) appears in the section discussing the laws of vows (nedarim) and the husband's ability to annul or uphold his wife's vows. The Torah establishes that a husband has the authority to confirm or nullify certain vows made by his wife, provided he does so on the same day he hears them.

Rashi's Explanation

Rashi explains that if the husband remains silent ("וְאִם־הַחֲרֵשׁ יַחֲרִישׁ") from the day he hears the vow until the next day ("מִיּוֹם אֶל־יוֹם"), he can no longer annul the vow. His silence is considered implicit confirmation ("הֵקִים אֶת־כָּל־נְדָרֶיהָ"), and the vow stands as if he actively upheld it. Rashi emphasizes that the husband's window for annulment is strictly limited to the day he hears the vow (based on Sifrei Bamidbar 153).

Rambam's Halachic Perspective

In Hilchos Nedarim (12:7), Rambam codifies this law, stating that if a husband hears his wife's vow and does not annul it on that day, the vow becomes binding. The phrase "מִיּוֹם אֶל־יוֹם" teaches that the 24-hour period from when he first heard it constitutes "the day of hearing," after which his silence confirms the vow.

Talmudic Analysis (Nedarim 77b)

The Talmud discusses whether "מִיּוֹם אֶל־יוֹם" refers to:

  • The remainder of the current day plus the following night (Beis Shammai)
  • The current day and following day until the same time (Beis Hillel)

Halacha follows Beis Hillel, meaning the husband has exactly 24 hours from when he first hears the vow to annul it.

Midrashic Insight (Sifrei)

The Sifrei notes that the double language of "הַחֲרֵשׁ יַחֲרִישׁ" teaches that the husband's silence must be complete - he cannot partially object or express uncertainty. Either he explicitly nullifies the vow on that day, or his total silence confirms it.

Practical Implications

This verse establishes important principles in halacha:

  • The time-sensitive nature of vow annulment
  • The husband's responsibility to respond promptly to his wife's vows
  • The concept that silence can constitute halachic consent in certain cases

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does Numbers 30:15 mean about a husband confirming his wife's vows?
A: Numbers 30:15 teaches that if a husband remains silent and does not annul his wife's vows or oaths from the day he hears them, those vows become binding. According to Rashi, this silence is considered implicit approval, and the husband effectively confirms the vows by not objecting to them.
Q: Why is the husband's silence significant in this verse?
A: In Jewish law (based on the Talmud, Nedarim 72b), a husband has the authority to annul certain vows made by his wife. However, if he does not express disapproval within the same day he hears them, his silence is interpreted as consent. This emphasizes the importance of timely communication in marital relationships.
Q: How does this verse apply to Jewish life today?
A: This verse forms the basis for the halachic (Jewish legal) concept of a husband's role in certain vows (as discussed in Rambam's Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Nedarim). While some details may vary in contemporary practice, the principle teaches responsibility in relationships and the weight of words—whether spoken or unspoken.

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