Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What does Numbers 30:7 mean?
A: Numbers 30:7 discusses the laws of vows (nedarim) made by a married woman. According to Orthodox Jewish interpretation, this verse teaches that if a married woman makes a vow or oath, her husband has the authority to affirm or nullify it on the day he hears it (as explained in the following verses). This falls under the broader Torah laws about vows found in Numbers 30.
Q: Why is the husband's role important in a woman's vows?
A: The Torah assigns the husband a role in affirming or nullifying his wife's vows to maintain harmony in the household (shalom bayit). Rashi explains that this prevents potential conflicts if a wife's vow could negatively impact the marital relationship. However, certain types of vows (like those related to self-affliction) cannot be nullified, as per Talmudic discussion in Nedarim.
Q: Do these laws about vows still apply today?
A: Yes, the general principles still apply in Orthodox Jewish practice. The details are elaborated in the Talmud (tractate Nedarim) and codified by Rambam in Hilchot Nedarim. However, since we lack the Sanhedrin today, certain vow-related procedures differ. A rabbi should always be consulted regarding vows to ensure proper halachic observance.
Q: What can we learn from this verse about speech?
A: This verse reminds us of the power of words and the seriousness of vows (as King Solomon warns in Ecclesiastes 5:4). The Talmud (Chullin 2a) derives from here that one must be careful with speech. The Midrash (Sifrei) also teaches that this shows how interpersonal relationships affect our spiritual commitments.
Q: How does this apply to a woman's independence in Judaism?
A: While the husband has certain rights regarding vows, Jewish law greatly values a woman's autonomy. The Talmud (Ketubot 72a) discusses cases where a woman retains full control over her vows. Moreover, Rambam (Hilchot Nedarim 12:1-3) explains that this law applies specifically to marital vows affecting the relationship - other vows may stand without husband's approval.
Context in the Torah
The verse (Bamidbar 30:7) discusses the laws of a woman's vows (nedarim) after she is married. This is part of a larger section (Bamidbar 30:3-16) detailing the circumstances under which a father or husband may annul a woman's vows, reflecting the Torah's nuanced approach to familial authority and personal commitments.
Rashi's Explanation
Rashi (Bamidbar 30:7) explains that this verse refers to a woman who was single when she made a vow (neder) or oath (shevuah) and then subsequently married. The phrase "אִם־הָיוֹ תִהְיֶה לְאִישׁ" ("if she be married to a husband") indicates that her husband now has the authority to affirm or nullify her prior vows on the day he hears of them, as derived from the continuation of the passage.
Rambam's Legal Perspective
In Hilchot Nedarim (11:1), the Rambam codifies that a husband may only annul his wife's vows if he does so on the same day he becomes aware of them ("ביום שמוע"). If he delays, the vow remains binding. This emphasizes the importance of timely communication and decision-making in marital relationships regarding spiritual commitments.
Talmudic Discussion (Nedarim 70b-71a)
The Talmud explores the scope of a husband's ability to nullify vows:
Midrashic Insight (Sifrei Bamidbar 153)
The Sifrei notes that the phrase "מִבְטָא שְׂפָתֶיהָ" ("utterance of her lips") includes not only formal vows but any verbal expression that creates a binding obligation. This teaches the power of speech and the need for carefulness in one's words.
Halachic Implications
Later poskim, including the Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De'ah 234), rule that: